The Truth about finding the right one!

First off stop lying to yourself...if want to meet "the one" listen up!

If you like going out to bars, then a bar is the best place for you to meet your second half. If you don’t believe me, consider this: you meet your future husband at a football game, then hate it when he wants to go to football games all the time. Later you come to the realization that you only went to football games to meet guys. Football games are not your thing, and now you are screwed. I have met a ton of girls that have told me that they can’t wait to find the right guy, so they can stop going to bars.

Instead, what you need to do is find happiness in yourself. First off, if you are unhappy while you are single, don’t expect that to change once you are dating someone. Go out and do something that you want to do, have fun being you and figure out who you are. Eventually one day you will meet someone (while being yourself, and perhaps at a bar), you will start dating them, and then you will enjoy the same things . . . Perfect!

Warning! Just as some girls don’t like bars yet go to bars to meet guys, the same is true for men. Guys will go to Yoga, take Woman Studies in college, and go to marathon fundraisers to meet girls. Most of these guys have no interest in the activity at hand, but more interest in how great your butt looks in yoga pants! Remember men are pigs, and you choose to date us.

Maybe doing the shit you don’t want to is the start of “compromising” in a relationship?

The Truth about being SEXY: Lingerie!

Dear Woman of the world

I would like apologize! I know you all try so hard, but sometimes your efforts go unnoticed because you need to understand how simple men are. I believe that under the insecurity’s of every woman is a beautiful sexy model, it all comes down to confidence.

Remember, we are simple, stupid, and oblivious to small details, kind of like children.

Perfect example is Lingerie. We will notice the difference of a black and Red bra and panties set, however we will not think it is anything special or super sexy! We need larger changes from the normal. If you take a black bra, and a black thong, and just add some thigh high stockings we will go WOW. If you just change from black to red, we wont think anything is different! We are dumb like that, sorry but you choose to date us!

Whether you think you are sexy or not, just the idea of you making the effort is sexy! Guys hate to hear lines like; does this look ok, it doesn’t fit me right? If you are going to wear lingerie you have to go all in and do it. Just like woman, men like the idea of making an effort and the surprise will knock his socks off.

Ladies what do you think?

How To Lose A Guy's Interest In 10 Seconds

Aug 7

In my experience with online dating I have found multiple mistakes that women make that scare away possible tall dark and handsomes. Although there are many potential slip-ups one can make, the greatest of these centers around posting profile pictures. Below are examples of some classic Do's and Dont's.

Things Not To Do!

1. Posting a picture of you with a baby, yours or not. It scares us away; we want kids but we run when it seems to be pushed at us.

2. Posting a picture of you at your sister's wedding, because it SCREAMS, “I am here to get married because my sister beat me to the punch.”

3. Posting a picture of you with your ex-boyfriend. If it is your brother or a friend you need to make a note of that. It shouts BAGGAGE!

4. Not having a picture of yourself without all your girlfriends is a no brainer. Men are simple and don’t want to have to hunt for which one you are. Also you want a guy to look at you, not your friends--remember, we are easily distracted.

5. Posting pictures of you only in a mirror, and/or camera phone pictures. All I can think is, “you don’t have any pictures of yourself; do you ever leave the house?!”

6. Posting a picture of you in your underwear. Sorry, whore!

Things That Are Attractive!

It is a great idea to have a diverse portfolio of pictures, for example:

1. Pictures of something outdoors or sporty, because as much as you want a fit, active guy, we want the same also.

2. Pictures of you at social events. Perhaps drinking alcohol somewhere--whether it's recreational or just for business events, we need to know you could go and hang.

3. Pictures of something wild! Like every kid at Christmas we like to he surprised. You need a wow factor: “Holy shit she has gone skydiving, I have not even done that!”

4. A cute picture of you in a dress, with heels. Yeah I know I am half gay but you need to show a guy you can get dressed up and look sexy. This is also a huge confidence booster in a man’s opinion of you. “Wow, she looks hot when she dresses up!”

5. A bathing suit picture. Yeah, men are pigs but this could be a huge wow factor for you.

6. A picture of you laughing. No one wants a stick in the mud! If we don’t think you can laugh… why waste our time?

Be Funny!!!!!!