First off stop lying to yourself...if want to meet "the one" listen up!
If you like going out to bars, then a bar is the best place for you to meet your second half. If you don’t believe me, consider this: you meet your future husband at a football game, then hate it when he wants to go to football games all the time. Later you come to the realization that you only went to football games to meet guys. Football games are not your thing, and now you are screwed. I have met a ton of girls that have told me that they can’t wait to find the right guy, so they can stop going to bars.
Instead, what you need to do is find happiness in yourself. First off, if you are unhappy while you are single, don’t expect that to change once you are dating someone. Go out and do something that you want to do, have fun being you and figure out who you are. Eventually one day you will meet someone (while being yourself, and perhaps at a bar), you will start dating them, and then you will enjoy the same things . . . Perfect!
Warning! Just as some girls don’t like bars yet go to bars to meet guys, the same is true for men. Guys will go to Yoga, take Woman Studies in college, and go to marathon fundraisers to meet girls. Most of these guys have no interest in the activity at hand, but more interest in how great your butt looks in yoga pants! Remember men are pigs, and you choose to date us.
Maybe doing the shit you don’t want to is the start of “compromising” in a relationship?
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